Weddings can get a little chaotic and frankly I have no interest in adding any stress to your experience. For the amount of time, energy, and money that you are investing into all of it, I think you should get to be present with yourself and the ones you love the most. This is not a day for me or any other vendor to demand all of your attention. This is a day that is sacred. This is a day to celebrate and be carefree. This day is about you.